My email address has been down for some time now. Just discovered that today.
And I was wondering why I was getting no email for the past couple of days...
Don't you get pissed when that kind of stuff happens to you?
I sure do.
Which brings me to something important about learning and mastering NLP: emotional mastery.
When I first started learning NLP, I believed that from that moment on, I should be able to feel the way I wanted, whenever I wanted, and that I should have absolute control over my emotions.
As I progressed, I discovered this was the farthest thing from the truth.
In fact, whatever emotion comes up serves only as a messaging system that lets you know what you're currently living isn't aligned with your values.
EDIT: whatever "painful" emotion comes up. Thanks for pointing that out, Mike.
So now, when I start feeling bad, it's only a matter of seconds before I figure out what my system is trying to tell me.
And then the solution comes easy: take action or change your values.
One or the other.
No way around it.
Let me know if you'd like to learn more about this by posting some comments here below and I'll give you some really good stuff.