Have You Updated Your Selfware Lately?


Happy Monday!

Did you have an outstanding weekend?

Were you able to find new vehicles to meet the emotional needs we discussed on Friday?

I really hope you take the time to do the exercises I share with you. So many of us still believe that information is the difference that makes the difference in our lives.

It’s not.

The difference that makes the difference is the information you apply by taking action.

That’s the only leverage you get. Period.

So let’s move on.

A couple of years ago, when I was neck deep in studying how our sense of identity works, I unearthed a little video by a guy named Stephen Pierce.

In it, he presented a concept called “selfware.”

I loved the name at sight.

He shared that our sense of self revolves around three components (and by the way, this is as usual just a MODEL. This is not academic nor scientific data.)

The first component is our self-image. How we view ourselves.

Stop and consider that for your own case. How do you view yourself? When you think of yourself, are you happy with what you see?

The next component is our self-talk. What we tell ourseves.

You know that nagging little voice in your head? What does it tell you all day long? Does it edify you or debilitate you?

The third component is our self-esteem. How we like ourselves.

Do you like yourself? How much? In your intimate, do you praise yourself or knock yourself down?

In NLP, of course, we have much more granular ways of playing with each of these components.

But for what it’s worth, I find the model really practical. It helps us evaluate very quickly how we’re doing on these three basic areas and how we could make significant improvements by implementing just a few changes.

Imagine the significant changes you’d be able to achieve in your life if you mastered each of these components.

If you want to know more about this, let me know. I’m building a little program I’m going to offer to only a few subscribers in the next two months.

All practical, juicy bits of information that you can turn around and implement IMMEDIATELY to get results in your life.

As all of my clients will tell you, it just works and the effect is instantaneous.

Formal sign-ups aren’t open yet, but I want to gauge the interest to prepare my resources accordingly.

So if you want to know more, hit the comments and just jot down “Me!”

About the author 

Martin Messier

Martin Messier has been practicing NLP for 20 years. He was trained in NLP and Neuroassociative Conditioning by Master Trainer Rex Sikes and Tony Robbins. He holds a BA in Economics and International Studies and a Master's degree in International Political Economy.

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